OK, so it is just snipping off her "mullet", and a few bangs around the ear, but it made quite a big difference.
She was having this sort of 1960's, Carol Brady look, and with her taking her clips out of her hair all the time, her hair was getting pretty uncontrollable.
She still has the bird's nest problem in the back of her hair, but that happens automatically every day and that's mostly my fault for giving her my very fine and thin hair.
So, a few dobs of leave-in conditioner, some cute barrettes or bands and voila! a cute girl she is!